This thought has run through my head time and time again, sometimes all day. When Malakhai gets older, will he hate me? If you've been following the blog for a while, you know that Khai's dad and I don't have the best relationship. In fact, we don't have a relationship at all. We don't coparent.… Continue reading Will He Hate Me?
Dealing with a narcissist is probably one of the hardest things to do if you don't know how to handle them. My son's father is a narcissist. He's very controlling and demanding. He wants everything to go his way or no way. Well, the thing is, he has yet to control me. Sometimes dealing with… Continue reading Narcissism
Today my son started daycare. He was supposed tos tart awhile ago, but I wasn’t ready. I never wanted him to go to daycare, but he needs social skills now that he’s getting older. He’s becoming more mobile and talkative (baby talk that is). Luckily, his daycare is owned by a friend of the family… Continue reading Daycare
Of course about 5 months ago I didn’t have this mindset. I was scared shitless. I had spent two months at my mom’s house after having my son, and I had had so much help between my mom and my stepdad. It was then finally time for me to go home. I was petrified at… Continue reading “I Ain’t Ever Scared…”
Spent a beautiful Saturday at the farmer’s market with my baby love. When Khai gets older, the farmers market will be considered field lessons for part of me teaching him outside of school, if I even put him in school.
Each night, I make it my mission to ensure Khai gets an excellent night's slumber. I give him a bath in his new tub. He's in a big boy tub now (cue the water works). I bathe him, wash his hair, let the water out and then fill it with clean water up to his… Continue reading Bedtime with Khai
This past Saturday, I took Malakhai to the pumpkin patch and as you can see below, we had a grand ol’ time. He loved touching the pumpkins and pulling up the hay. It was $5 to get in, and they had numerous activities to do such as a hay ride, vendors to eat or buy… Continue reading Old Time Christmas Tree Farm
Closure is the closing of one chapter and beginning of another. Close one door, another opens. However, don’t mistake closure as burning bridges because it is not, well, depending upon how you go about getting closure. Closure is more than just relationships. You can get closure from a job, career, friendship, a car, partnership, college,… Continue reading Closure