He wasn’t really a killer, but he did kill the relationship. I don’t know if many people know but there’s a classified section on Craigslist where you can find someone to date, just like any other dating website right? Wrong. Many of the ads on Craigslist are spam and not real people. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve posted an ad and got fake responses. Luckily, no information is given out. They email you through a Craigslist email that’s basically a bunch of numbers, but it goes directly to your email.
So, I met this guy who I found extremely attractive. He was a little older than me and shorter. Mind you, I was young and dumb at this time. This was back in 2012-2013 I believe. Anyway, I came over his house one night and we talked, had half a glass of wine and ended up having sex. Now let me tell you, he was not well endowed, but he was an expert at G-spots, if you know what I’m saying. Back-to-back mind-blowing orgasms, and those are hard to come by for me. Why is it always the crazy men who have great sex? For the life of me that’s mind-boggling.
So I ended up staying with him for a out a week. He didn’t work because he was receiving disability from the military. About 3 weeks went by and he began to show his true colors. He was manipulative, dominating, fascist, and demeaning. When he got angry, he would belittle me and treat me like a child. He even talked to me like I was one of his kids, who btw were my age (he had kids in high school).
Soon enough, I found out he was married, but separated and had a 2 year old daughter. I called it quits and never spoke to him again. After calling it quits, he blew me phone up for about a week until I blocked him. Lucky for me, he didn’t know where I lived. I also found out he had been homeless the year before.
This was not my first Craigslist dating experience. I’ll talk about the other in another post which will be much longer. I will never look to Craigslist for anything more than a job or to sell or buy something.