2018 has already been taking care of me by exing people out of my life who don’t need to be there and to be honest, I can’t say that I am not happy about it. It’s nice when people remove themselves from your life and save you the time, energy and trouble. Even if you have been friends with someone for so long and have been family since birth, if it’s not meant to be, it’s not meant to be.
I made a vow to myself and my baby that we would not tolerate toxicity, negativity or anything that only brings drama and unnecessary bullshit. We are only 3 weeks into the New Year and all of that is weeding itself out. I have already made new mommy friends and nonmommy friends and it’s exciting.
When you are living for you and only you, you tend to not care when people leave your life. If they aren’t there to help you live in your purpose, they aren’t for you. I learned this through a very close friend of mine.
It saddens me how someone can believe that when people don’t like them or they stop associating with them, these people are automatically jealous. Honey, you have nothing that nobody wants and you need to get over yourself. I have ran into too many people like this in my life and it’s sad that you think you have something that someone else wants, but clearly you don’t.
People who are so unhappy with themselves and the situations they are in, projecting this unhappiness on others, is truly absurd. You can’t blame anyone else but yourself for the way your life is set up and for the things going on. You chose that path and the only person that can change it is you. Maybe what you did in your past is now coming back to you: karma is a stank bitch.
I’ve learned that we and only we are responsible for the things we allow to happen to us. We can’t keep complaining about the same old thing, every single day and not do anything to change it, yet expect it to change through complaining. Sweetheart, it doesn’t work that way. You want a better life? Get off your ass and make it happen. Also, become a better person. That always helps.
I know this post is all over the place, but I hope it touches someone or motivates someone.